They say, “Jesus didn’t say we shouldn’t defend ourselves.”

Oh, but he did.  When Peter sought to defend Jesus against those who came to arrest him by cutting off a man’s ear—Jesus told him to put away his sword. (Matthew 26:52). Jesus later told Pilate that if his kingdom were of this world his servants would fight to prevent his arrest. (John 18:36)

Jesus also said that if you draw the sword you will die by the sword. (Matthew 26:52)

Do not resist an evil person (Matthew 5:39)

Overcome evil with good (Romans 12:21)

Love your enemies. (Matthew 5:44)

How can you overcome evil with good when you only mirror evil back to a person?  When one returns evil for evil, evil increases.(Further discussion is beyond the scope of this blog but trusting God for our protection or other eventual positive outcome is the only response Jesus accepts from his followers (John 8:31).

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They say,”God wants his people to be rich.”

Not exactly.

Jesus told people to sell everything and follow him? (Luke 12:33) Why did he say to not store up treasures on this earth? (Matthew 6:19) Why did he say that it’s very hard for a rich man to enter heaven? (Matthew 19:33

No, earthly riches are not to be the goal of a follower of Jesus but seeking his kingdom, which will at times cost us everything we’ve got.  Of course, I must point out that neither did Jesus say that he wants us to be in poverty since he continually pointed his followers to taking care of those in need.  In fact, the early church “were no needy persons among them” (Acts 4:34) because they took care of one another. Jesus said that he came to preach good news to the poor–keeping them in poverty is not good news!

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What does it mean to “fall from grace?”

“To ‘fall from grace’ means to sin so badly that there’s no forgiveness big enough to cover it.”

Not at all. The term, “fallen from grace” comes from Paul’s admonition to the Galatians to resist being put under the Law of Moses.

You who are trying to be justified by the law have been alienated from Christ; you have fallen away from grace. Galatians 5:4

Anyone who tries to be justified by the Law is relying on the Law and not grace.  You can’t have it both ways—the Law or Jesus. So, to “fall from grace” is to seek God’s approval by attempting to live up to the Law—even following the Ten Commandments. Such behavior results in being “alienated from Christ,” a serious matter. Paul quoted Deuteronomy (27:26) in saying that anyone who tries such a thing is under a curse because they then have to keep every one of the 613 parts of the Law (which, in fact, has been impossible since 70 AD when the Jewish Temple was destroyed by the Romans—a vast number of the requirements involve Temple/Tabernacle worship).

“Cursed is everyone who does not continue to do everything written in the Book of the Law.” Galatians 3:10

For whoever keeps the whole law and yet stumbles at just one point is guilty of breaking all of it. James 2:10

In no way should this be confused with obeying Jesus’ teachings. Many people mistakenly believe that since we are “under grace,” to expect anyone to be obedient to Jesus’ teachings is to put them under “a bunch of rules and regulations” and is “works righteousness.”

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They say, “As Christians we don’t need to please God because he’s already pleased with us.”

Not exactly.

It’s true that we come to God the Father through the sacrifice of Jesus who paid the penalty for our sins and Jesus is definitely pleased with Jesus. However, that’s not where it stops.

The New Testament often urges us to do what’s pleasing to God.

For the kingdom of God is not a matter of eating and drinking, but of righteousness, peace, and joy in the Holy Spirit, because anyone who serves Christ in this way is pleasing to God and receives human approval. Romans 14:17,18

Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship. Romans 12:1

But if a widow has children or grandchildren, these should learn first of all to put their religion into practice by caring for their own family and so repaying their parents and grandparents, for this is pleasing to God. 1 Timothy 5:4

So, we make it our goal to please him, whether we are at home in the body or away from it.   2 Corinthians 5:9

Whoever sows to please their flesh, from the flesh will reap destruction; whoever sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life. Galatians 6:8

On the contrary, we speak as those approved by God to be entrusted with the gospel. We are not trying to please people but God, who tests our hearts. 1 Thessalonians 2:4

As for other matters, brothers and sisters, we instructed you how to live in order to please God, as in fact you are living. Now we ask you and urge you in the Lord Jesus to do this more and more. 1 Thessalonians 4:1

And without faith it is impossible to please God,because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him. Hebrews 11:6

We continually ask God to fill you with the knowledge of his will through all the wisdom and understanding that the Spirit gives, so that you may live a life worthy of the Lord and please him in every way: bearing fruit in every good work, growing in the knowledge of God, being strengthened with all power according to his glorious might so that you may have great endurance and patience, Colossians 1:9-11

They say, “It’s a sin to be sorrowful.”

It’s a sin to be sorrowful since the Bible says we are to,”rejoice in the Lord always.”

Is it true? No.

The Bible does instruct us to “rejoice in the Lord always” (Philippians 4:4) but every admonition in the Bible doesn’t have a reverse formula as though we were working mathematical equations.  Jesus himself expresses great sorrow on a number of occasions (Luke 19:40-42, John 11:34-36, Matthew 26:37-39) yet was without sin (2 Corinthians 5:21). Paul taught that we are to “mourn with those who mourn” (Romans 12:15)

The Bible makes the distinction, however, between Godly sorrow and worldly sorrow.

Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation and leaves no regret, but worldly sorrow brings death. See what this godly sorrow has produced in you: what earnestness, what eagerness to clear yourselves, what indignation, what alarm, what longing, what concern, what readiness to see justice done. 2 Corinthians 7:11

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They say, “Christians just a bunch of hypocrites.”

To be a hypocrite means to play a role, put on an act, as in Greek theater–to wear a mask.  The Greek actor only played his role while he was on stage, living an entirely different life the rest of the time.  Yes, this can be said of many who are called by the name Christian and of many who are in any other religion—or no religion.  And there are many Christians of whom it cannot rightly be said.

In order for a non-Christian to pass such a judgement on a Christian, it would take the non-Christian’s knowing how a Christian is supposed to live, acknowledging that such a life is a good thing, then walking away from it without living it themselves—just because someone else didn’t do what they say they believed.

Hypocrisy comes from a lack of spiritual maturity.  Christians struggle too.  No excuses, just reasons.

If you are a non-Christian who has been hurt by Christians who didn’t “walk their talk,” as a follower of Jesus (a.k.a. Christian) I apologize to you. I invite you to become a follower of Jesus and walk in his good ways.  It won’t be easy, but it will be wondrous.

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They say, “The Christian Trinity consist of God, Jesus and Mary.”

Is it true? Not at all! 

The term “Trinity” does not occur in the Bible but is used to describe God in the three “persons” of the Father, his Son Jesus (not by sexual union) and The Holy Spirit—all God. Mary, the mother of Jesus, was simply God’s servant to give birth to Jesus—though she was a very special and unique servant (no one else had such a privilege).

They say, “There is someone out there for everyone to marry.”

Is it true? No.

It sounds good; it sounds romantic—unless you’re being bugged the thousandth time by your great aunt about when you’re ever going to find a husband or wife.

The New Testament doesn’t put the emphasis on getting married that most societies do.  Once a person is married there are definite expectations. However, Jesus said that some people are to be married and some aren’t, that it’s a good thing if they aren’t but not everyone has the gift of celibacy.

Jesus replied, “Not everyone can accept this word, but only those to whom it has been given. For there are eunuchs who were born that way, and there are eunuchs who have been made eunuchs by others—and there are those who choose to live like eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. The one who can accept this should accept it.” Matthew 19:11,12

Paul said that it’s better not to marry so that men and women can give their full attention to pleasing God rather than their wives and husbands.

I would like you to be free from concern. An unmarried man is concerned about the Lord’s affairs—how he can please the Lord. But a married man is concerned about the affairs of this world—how he can please his wife—and his interests are divided. An unmarried woman or virgin is concerned about the Lord’s affairs: Her aim is to be devoted to the Lord in both body and spirit. But a married woman is concerned about the affairs of this world—how she can please her husband. I am saying this for your own good, not to restrict you, but that you may live in a right way in undivided devotion to the Lord. 1 Corinthians 7:32-36

So while marriage can be wonderful, is holy and is to be honored by everyone, (Hebrews 13:4) it’s not for everyone.

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They say, Karma is the same thing as “sowing and reaping.”

“Karma is just another way of saying what Jesus said, ‘You reap what you sow”

Is it true? No.

No. This comparison is loosely made by people who don’t realize that the term karma is a package deal that comes directly from Hinduism requiring one to pay for one’s own sins—in another life!  In their way of thinking, it seems that you can never really know what it is you did in that other life. I’ve observed this lack of information resulting in judgemental speculation from supposed friends, when people are going through hard times; they shake their heads and say, “Must be bad karma somewhere.” Punishment for such wrong-doing seems to go on forever and results in being reincarnated as, perhaps, a rat.N

Hinduism, Buddhism. action, seen as bringing upon oneself inevitable results, good or bad, either in this life or in a reincarnation: in Hinduism one of the means of reaching Brahman (member of the priestly class).

http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/karma

Since Christians in no way believe in reincarnation it’s never appropriate for a Christian to refer to anything in their life as karma.  This is good news!  Anyone who follows Jesus as his disciple has his or her sins paid for by Jesus death and resurrection!  You don’t have to keep paying for your sins if you follow Jesus—he paid for them already!

Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows. Whoever sows to please their flesh, from the flesh will reap destruction; whoever sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life. Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up. Galatians 6:7-9

This scripture refers to the difference between following Jesus and following one’s own way—not an endless recycling of human life into animal life.

Just as people are destined to die once, and after that to face judgement,so Christ was sacrificed once to take away the sins of many; and he will appear a second time, not to bear sin, but to bring salvation to those who are waiting for him. Hebrews 9:27,28

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They say, “Peace as an Indicator of God’s Will”

Is it true? Not necessarily.

“You can tell if you are in God’s will by the ‘indicator of peace’—if you are in God’s will you will have peace, if you’re not, your peace will lift.”

If this were true, Jesus would have been out of God’s will in the Garden of Gethsemane and in his suffering on the cross. His was not a picture of peace (the kind referred to in this saying) but of agony, even questioning, though he gained what might be called resolve.

Using the peace as indicator formula has enabled Christians to come up with some outrageous self-permissions such as “It’s okay if I have a room mate of the opposite sex because we aren’t doing anything,”(yet) or “I have peace about leaving my husband because God wants me to be happy.” Remember the adage from the 1960’s? “If it feels good, do it.” The human mind can manufacture all sorts of things to justify what it wants—or lie about it.

No, the best indicator of God’s will is what the Holy Spirit has already spoken in the Bible (especially the New Covenant). You may think that it doesn’t cover everything for contemporary living—dig a little deeper, make sure you’re asking the right questions (the most basic ones)—you might be surprised how much is there.

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